In this Episode, I dive into 10 daily reminders you need to give yourself to get UNSTUCK in this business.
First of all, if you’re feeling defeated, please remind yourself that it is only a temporary feeling that you have. I used to think that being defeated or failing meant that I was weak. Feeling defeated or failing something doesn’t mean you’re weak. It means you’re HUMAN.
In order for you to get to the stairway to success and grow as a human, you’re going to have to suck at times. If you feel alone and like the whole world is crumbling down around you, it’s okay. It’s actually a part of your journey. I used to beat the crap out of myself when I failed so I get it. Your story of defeat is actually going to bring you success!
If you’re in that ISH now and you’re not able to step out of it, take that story and turn it around. Don’t sit in it, let it fester, and feel defeated. Let that pain push you while your vision pulls you!So here are 10 things i want you to remind yourself when you’re feeling defeated:
For example, lets say you're doing the same things again and again in your business but they’re just not working. You need to pivot! There’s a reason things aren’t working.
Instead of thinking: What can I change? You’re sitting in the ISH. If you’re going right and it’s not working, you need to swerve left. What areas can you change to become unstuck?
This is the compound effect. You are literally leaving money on the table in your business. Why? Small little tiny actions and changes are going to lead to that big success. Sometimes we can be so focused on that big goal or that end result that we’re not taking the small actions that need to be made to get there. FYI there is no finish line in this business.
Remember Heelers, baby steps!
Most of the times, we’re getting ready to get ready. We do this with diets, exercise, getting our kids on a routine, and our businesses just to name a few. Maybe you don’t know the exact answers, so you’re searching for it (getting ready to get ready). Instead of you just failing forward, having ignorance on fire, and embracing the suck, you’re getting stuck in not knowing an exact answer. The truth is that you don’t need to know all the answers.
Heller? I still don’t know all the answers. I just keep failing forward until I figure it out!
This is something I would struggle with all the time. Change scares the crap out of me. It happens. The other day I was interviewing a rockstar and I started getting anxious and was sweating all over. It happens to the best of us. If you don’t push through that uncomfortable feeling, nothing is going to get better boo boo.
I was literally at the very top in a company when someone in the organization just decided to pick up and leave. I lost over 200,000 in volume over night. It freaked me out because I knew I had to start over. I felt like my world was crumbling because everything I built since 2015 was gone. I wondered if I could even start over again. I was sitting in my own ISH. What happened?
I shifted my thinking and PIVOTED. I focused on the small actions I could be doing instead. As soon as I pulled myself out of that crap I was able to do it all over again! You can create success multiple times.
If you know you’re in a shitty situation and choose to stay there, that’s on you boo boo. You can not have beauty bless you if you have negativity that owns you. How do I know? I was running and drowning in chaos. My high heel should have said “Chaos” because I was running toward the drama and chaos instead of away from it. Distance yourself from the drama and chaos and you will see the beauty all around you I can promise you that.
If I believed the people that weren’t good for me in my life, I would still be stuck in the nonsense. As soon as you remove yourself from chaotic people’s thoughts about you, your life will immediately change for the better. You may feel alone in the beginning and that’s good. You may need to feel alone for awhile until the right people start to empower you. And when they do, holy guacamole it’s beautiful.
I had a baby 3 months ago and guess what? I still look a little preggers. It doesn’t bother me because I’m OK with my imperfections. Ignoring the flaws makes life a lot more fun. Perfection is fake! Am I 100 percent okay with the mom pooch? No, but my STORY can inspire and empower another woman with a mom pooch! Don’t avoid taking action in business just because you’re not perfect.
I didn’t have success for the first two years in my life because it wasn’t my time. It will happen so stop beating up on yourself. Remember that just because the success isn’t happening right now, it doesn’t mean it never will.
In two years I enrolled MAYBE 30 people. What kept me going after two straight years of no success? If I would have given up I wouldn’t be where I am today. What if you’re only 3 feet right now from that rockstar joining your team? Or 3 feet from taking your business to the next level? Don’t quit because you’re 3 feet from gold.
Thank you for showing up today and trusting in me to help you break the barrier of the stuck feeling. Know that pain is temporary. Defeat is temporary. I promise you that we are going to break you out of the negative mindset.
I love helping you climb that staircase to success. I love you all Heelers!
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